For the baptism of a 1 year old.
My computer was working
extremely slow recently, so much so that pages loading would time
out. So I ran my cleanup software, which removed a lot of temporary
files and cookies and other stuff. Then I went back to work. But
things hadn't really improved. So I did the old standby of shutting
down the computer and starting it up again. And it worked as it
should. Sometimes the way to fix something is to just start over. And
that's what baptism is about.
That's especially true for
adult baptism. I just baptized an inmate in the jail and it was
obviously a turning point for her. She is trying to get her life
reoriented for her sake and for the sake of her child and her husband, who is a Christian. For her, baptism is truly a new beginning, a new
start in life.
So why do we baptize
babies? They already are a new start. Part of the reason is
that baptism parallels the sign of the old covenant: circumcision. When he is circumcised on the 8th day, a Jewish baby has no idea that he is thereby becoming a member of God's
covenant people. But he is included nevertheless. At about the time
the boy hits puberty he is trained in the beliefs of Judaism and
learns to read the Torah and he is declared a man. At his bar mitzvah (or bat mitzvah if it is a girl) the child takes ownership of the faith that he or she belonged to since shortly
after birth.
We Christians tend to do
the same. We baptize babies as a sign of the new covenant in Christ.
It is extended to them as a sign of God's grace, his undeserved,
unreserved goodness toward us, which none of us can earn. Later when
kids are capable of a deeper understanding of the faith, they learn
the catechism and are confirmed. That's when they take ownership of
their faith.
But why not just wait till
they reach that age before baptizing them? Certain Christian
denominations do, often dedicating infants to God rather than
baptizing them. But if a fresh start is desirable, how much more is
starting off on the right foot? Baptism isn't, as some think, a magic
ritual to protect babies from hell. It is a rite of entrance, a
welcoming into the body of Christ, into fellowship with his
followers, into full citizenship in the kingdom of God. In this world
we are all born into families and as citizens of nations as infants.
These bestow upon us rights, responsibilities and benefits which we
do not comprehend till later. What are our rights, responsibilities
and benefits as citizens of God's kingdom?
In John 1:12, it says that
to all who have received Jesus Christ, he gives the right to become
God's children. Understand that we are not God's children simply by
virtue of being born. We are his creations. But through Christ we are
adopted by God as his children. That makes us heirs of God and
co-heirs with Christ, as Paul says (Romans 8:17). And as heirs that
means we are the recipients of the promises God made to Abraham and
his descendants, both physical and spiritual (Hebrews 6:17). The
Bible tells us what we inherit: salvation (Heb 1:14), eternal life
(Titus 3:7), grace (1 Peter 3:7), the right relationship with God
(Heb 11:7), and the kingdom of God (James 2:5). Again, inheritance is
not something you earn. It comes to you simply by being the child of
someone. If we are children of God, we inherit all these good things.
But just as being a
citizen of the kingdom means having rights, it also means
responsibilities. All citizens must obey the law. Jesus summarized
the law in just 2 commandments: to love God with all our heart, mind,
soul and strength and to love our neighbors as ourselves. No other
commandment is greater and all the others are just footnotes to
these. The night before he died Jesus raised the bar on the second commandment. He told us to love one another as he has loved us. That's
a tall order. How can we possibly do that?
Only through the power of
God's Holy Spirit, which Jesus promised his Father would send. As
suggested by the word Jesus uses for the Spirit, he has several
functions in relation to us. The Greek word parakletos covers
a whole range of roles. It means “counselor, helper, encourager,
and advocate.” The Spirit is our counselor in the sense that he
leads us into the truth, helps us remember what Jesus told us, and
gives us the words we need to defend our faith. The Spirit is our
helper in that he equips us with gifts and abilities to serve God.
The Spirit is our encourager in that he gives us the ability to trust
God, to obey him, to repent when we fall and to praise God for his
grace and mercy. The Spirit is our advocate in that he helps us pray,
communicates our needs to the Father when words fail us and speaks up
for us as penitent sinners.
Scholars
speak of the 3 Bs of religion: Belief, Behavior and Belonging. Our
beliefs
come from Scripture, are summarized in the creeds and are explored by
theologians and expounded by preachers. Our behavior
also comes from the Bible, supplemented by tradition and extended by
reason. But today a lot of people are asserting that they can be good
Christians without belonging
to a church. The trouble is that ours is a faith that asserts that
God is love and that our primary duty is to love him and to love each
other. How are we to practice and grow in love if we do not belong to
a group of people dedicated to precisely that? Are
churches perfect? No. But neither are we. And neither are the people
we are called to love. The church is a place where you can practice
getting to know and loving people different than you under conditions
that are less than ideal, which is to say, real world conditions. And
if you let it, the church should equip you for the battlefield
conditions you often find outside its walls.
I
want to add another B to the previous 3: Benefits. I am surprised
that often secular people think we simply belong to a faith from
which we derive no real benefits. But the benefits of being part of a
church have actually been studied. In fact the only way for
scientists to objectively measure people's religious devotion is by
counting how often they attend services. And after eliminating all
other possible contributing factors, they have found that people who
attend regularly tend to be happier, healthier and live longer. When
they do get sick, they tend to get better faster and have less
complications. They are less likely to get depression and more likely
to recover if they do get it. Children who go regularly are less
likely to get involved with alcohol and drug abuse or promiscuous
sex. They tend to do better in school. Those are a lot of benefits.
Also
we live in a time when what is legal for you to do is not necessarily connected to what it is moral for you to do, or what is physically or
spiritually healthy for you. How are your children to learn that, as
Paul said, all things may be lawful but not all things are beneficial? (1 Corinthians 6:12) Unless you are going to devote at least an hour every week discussing
with your children what is good behavior and what is not and explaining the criteria for deciding why, there is little alternative to letting
them fend for themselves other than taking them to Sunday school.
Which do you want to frame the way your child looks at the world--the
commercialized, sensationalized, and pandering media plus your kids'
peers, or people who are sincerely trying to follow Jesus? Do you
want them to think that life is all about chasing personal happiness
by accumulating more and more stuff and saturating every appetite
with more and more exotic tastes or that life is about loving God and
other people in the Spirit of Jesus and that finding happiness is a
side effect of losing yourself in that which you love? Do you want
them to think that the highest value in life is a socially acceptable level of selfishness or that the highest values are trust, hope and love? If
you chose the second option each time, you should take your kids to a
church that teaches and practices those things.
We
are facing a new year. A new year is about beginnings. Baptism is
about beginnings. It's about making a new path, starting a new
journey. It's about seeing things, even old and familiar things, with
new eyes. Contrary to what people often think, God is not just a
thing of the past, nor is he opposed to everything new. In the Book
of Revelation, after the unveiling of the new heavens and the new
earth and the new Jerusalem, God says, “Behold, I am making all
things new!” That renewal of creation starts with us and our
baptism. For Eva, that starts today.