The scriptures referred to are Exodus 17:1-7, Romans 5:1-11, and John 4:5-42.
Wheaton College required its students to take at least one summer semester. You could do it on campus, 30 miles from Chicago, sharing its heat and humidity, or you could do it abroad. As a major in biblical studies, I chose the program that took us to Rome, Greece and Israel. While in Israel our guides cautioned us to drink water frequently, even when we didn't feel thirsty. Because there is practically no humidity and your perspiration evaporates quickly and efficiently, keeping you cool but also dehydrating you rapidly. Not being covered in sweat, you didn't realize how fast you were losing water.
You've probably heard the Rule of 3s: you can survive for 3 minutes without oxygen, 3 days without water and 3 weeks without food. These are averages but after air, you need water the most. And they didn't have running tap water in their homes in the days of the Bible. So a source of good, clean water was vital. Towns and cities were built on rivers or lakes, or else had wells or springs nearby. So going to the local well was a good place to meet people. Moses met the woman he married at a well. (Exodus 2:15-16) Usually the water for the day was either drawn early in the morning or early in the evening to avoid the heat of the day. Around noon people would cease their labor, eat lunch and have a nap. And sure enough, when we were in Israel we found that a lot of businesses would close for the afternoon and reopen in the evening.
So it would be unusual for a woman to come and draw her water at noon. Could it be that she was avoiding the other women and people of her town? Whom she does encounter is a stranger. She probably could identify him as a Jew by the blue tassels on the edges of his garment. She ignores him until he does something unheard of: he asks her for a drink. It is scandalous because she is a woman and a Samaritan.
The Samaritans began this way: After Solomon's death, the ten northern tribes broke away from the Davidic kings whose capital was Jerusalem. They chose their own king, declared Samaria their capital and took to themselves the name of the kingdom of Israel, the southern kingdom now being known as Judah. In 722 BC, Israel was conquered by the Assyrian Empire and 20,000 Israelites, mostly the upper classes, were taken into exile. They were replaced by Babylonians, Syrians and others deported from their territories by the Assyrians. They intermarried with the poor Israelites left behind. Eventually they developed their own version of the Mosaic religion and built their own temple on Mount Gerizim. They even had their own version of the 5 books of Moses. For instance, in the Samaritan version of the Ten Commandments, it is required that the faithful worship on Mount Gerizim! The Jews considered the Samaritans to be half-breed heretics. And in 128 BC, the leader of the Maccabees had the temple on Mount Gerizim destroyed. Later some Samaritans scattered bones in the Jewish temple, desecrating it. So the two peoples had no love for one another.
That's why the woman was taken aback. Jews and Samaritans would not share the same drinking vessel. If Jesus drank from something she used, he would be rendered unclean in Jewish eyes. She points this out and then Jesus says that if she asked him, he would give her living water. This was an idiom for flowing water, such as from a spring. It would be superior to well water. But of course Jesus is using a metaphor for the Spirit.
We see this later in John's gospel, when Jesus went to the Feast of the Tabernacles in Jerusalem. A highlight of that festival was the water-drawing ceremony. Priests would draw water from the Pool of Siloam and lead a procession to the temple, where they would pour the water on the altar. This symbolized the prophecy in Ezekiel 47 that waters would flow from the temple. (See also Zechariah 14:8). And John's gospel says, “On the last day of the feast, the greatest day, Jesus stood up and shouted out, 'If anyone is thirsty, let him come to me, and let the one who believes in me drink. Just as the scripture says, “From within him will flow rivers of living water.”' (Now he said this about the Spirit, whom those who believed in him were going to receive, for the Spirit had not yet been given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.)” (John 7:37-39) Jesus is essentially saying that he is now the temple of the Lord, where God dwells on earth.
So Jesus is not talking about water, without which our bodies die, but the Spirit of God, without which our spirits die. This woman desperately wants this living water. And we find out why when Jesus tells her to fetch her husband. She says she doesn't have one. And Jesus agrees with her. She's been married 5 times and the man she was living with was not married to her. This would have been a big scandal in that day and culture. If a woman were widowed 3 times, people would think there was something wrong with her. A woman who had been divorced 5 times would have been shunned. And that's why she was going to the well at noon when everyone else was home staying out of the heat.
And remember, Jesus was not a fan of divorce and remarriage. He considered it adultery. (Matthew 19:9) Some rabbis permitted divorce. Of course only the man could initiate it and he could do it for the most trivial of reasons, like his wife burnt his dinner, or simply because he found someone else he wanted to marry. Jesus had biblical reasons to oppose this (Matthew 19:6) but he may have some personal feelings about it as well. After all, Joseph was considering divorcing Mary when he found out she was pregnant during their betrothal period, which was considered as binding as marriage. (Matthew 1:18-19) Jesus' mother would have been disgraced and may have even been stoned to death as an adulterer had Joseph gone through with the divorce. So what does Jesus do when he encounters this much divorced woman so despised that she avoided the others in her town? He commends her for telling the truth and then drops the subject.
Well, actually the woman changes the subject. The fact that Jesus, a stranger, knows so much about her private life makes her think he might be a prophet. So she switches to talking about the issue of whether God should be worshiped on Mount Gerizim in Samaria or Mount Zion in Jerusalem. But Jesus doesn't go back to her marital history. Instead he says, “But the hour is coming and is now here when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father seeks such as these to worship him. God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.” Jesus is bringing their talk back to matters of the Spirit.
Let's face it. This is a weird conversation that Jesus is having. Both he and the woman are trying to steer it in different directions. But the most important issue is not running water or repeated adultery or rival worship sites. What is essential is the Spirit. Without it, none of those things have any significance. They are just earthly things and human activities that concern this short physical life. And some people do think such things are meaningless. But the human spirit rebels against meaninglessness. In fact, when someone sees no purpose or meaning in life, they start to die inside. Ask someone in the depths of depression.
And notice that Jesus is implying that even proper worship in Jerusalem is not valid if it is not done “in spirit and truth.” It was in his hometown of Nazareth that he defined what having the Spirit meant. Reading from Isaiah, Jesus said, “The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he has anointed me to proclaim the good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim release to the captives and the regaining of sight to the blind, to set free those who are oppressed, to proclaim the year of the Lord's favor.” (Luke 4:18-19) He stops just before the next phrase in Isaiah, “...and the day of vengeance of our God.” (Isaiah 61:2) Because his mission is not to condemn the world but save it. (John 3:17) Instead Jesus brings the Spirit who produces “love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.” (Galatians 5:22-23) That is what the Spirit of God does in your life.
Yet we have all seen people who go to church and go through the motions but do not have the Spirit of Jesus. We daily hear of people who loudly proclaim they are Christians who nevertheless do things that go against what Jesus said about loving your neighbor even if he is a foreigner. (Luke 10:30-37) We see people who don't acknowledge that whatever they do to the poor, the hungry, the thirsty, the sick, the imprisoned and the resident alien they are doing to Jesus. (Matthew 25:31-46) Remember it was the religious leaders of his day who wanted Jesus crucified. (John 19:15) And if Jesus walked into some churches today and preached about turning the other cheek and putting away the sword and how a camel could squeeze through the eye of a sewing needle easier than a rich person could enter God's kingdom, he'd be accused of being woke and marched out of the city and tossed off the nearest cliff as they tried to do in his hometown. (Luke 4:29) And if he offended today's political leaders by saying that God wants us to love our enemies and treat them decently (Matthew 5:43-45), they have him imprisoned, beaten and executed as they did then. Merely saying you are a Christian means nothing if you don't have the Spirit of Jesus in you.
Jesus says we must also worship the Father in truth. What truth is he speaking about? John's gospel tells us in the very first chapter that “grace and truth came through Jesus Christ.” (John 1:17) And Jesus says, “If you continue in my word, you are truly my disciples; and you will know the truth and the truth will make you free.” (John 8:31) So the truth is his message.
But in another sense Jesus is the message. He is the Word who was with God in the beginning and who is God. (John 1:1) He is the Word made flesh. And indeed Jesus says, “I am the way, the truth and the life; no one comes to the Father but through me.” (John 14:6) Jesus is the truth about God, the perfect expression of who God is. People looking for God have only to look at Jesus and in him they will see the God who is both just and merciful, gracious and forgiving, the God who is love, the God who “proves his love for us in that while we were still sinners Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8)
The Samaritans, like the Jews, were looking for the Messiah. They called him the Restorer. They saw him as the prophet who would come after Moses, as it says in Deuteronomy, “The Lord your God will raise up for you a prophet like me from among you—from your fellow Israelites; you must listen to him.” (Deuteronomy 18:15) That's why the woman, overwhelmed by what Jesus is telling her, says, “I know the Messiah is coming” (who is called Christ) “When he comes, he will proclaim all things to us.” And then Jesus says, “I am he, the one who is speaking to you.”
What was it in Jesus' manner that allowed her to even consider that he was who he said he was? What was it in Jesus that convinced her that she could be looking at the Restorer? Was it that he, a man, a Jew, and a righteous one at that, would take the time to talk to her, a woman, a Samaritan with an unsavory past, not about how wrong her nationality was or how wrong her religion was or how wrong her lifestyle was, but about her desire for a God who isn't constricted by such things but who cares about her and wants to fulfill her spiritual needs? And so she runs into town and says, “Come and see a man who told me everything I have ever done! He cannot be the Messiah, can he?” Like the women at the tomb, this woman, whose name we don't even know, becomes a messenger of the good news of Jesus.
Everyday we are hit by a flood of bad news. We see people doing things that Jesus explicitly forbids and saying they are doing it in his name. But what did the real Jesus do? He had the longest conversation the gospels record him having with anyone, with a woman he didn't know, who had a different ethnicity and a different religion and a very different lifestyle, and he didn't call her names, he didn't shame her, he didn't act like she was too stupid to understand spiritual matters. He treated her better than her 5 ex-husbands, better than the townspeople she was avoiding, better than any Jew would ever treat a Samaritan and better than most men would treat a woman in that day and than many even today. She probably occupied one of the lowest rungs in her society, and yet Jesus gave her the good news that the Restorer of all things and the Savior of the world has time to sit with her and is interested in what she thinks and says and invites her to worship God in spirit and in truth and quench her thirst for the Spirit of the God she sees in Jesus, the Spirit who will become in her a spring of water gushing up to eternal life.