The
scriptures referred to are Isaiah 53:4-12, and Mark
10:35-45.
Brandon
Gamble met his future wife in 6th
grade. That love story ended in the early hours of February 1, 2018.
That's when his wife Tyeisha smelled smoke in their house. When
Brandon opened the bedroom door, the hallway was ablaze. Brandon
broke the bedroom window and told Tyeisha to get out of the house.
Then he ran through the fire to find their 5 children. He broke the
window in their bedroom and started picking them up. A neighbor who
was awakened by all the breaking glass took the children, ages 6 through
13, from Brandon as he handed them out of the window. Tyeisha was
treated for smoke inhalation, the children had cuts from the glass,
but they all survived. Brandon didn't. He died saving his family.
It
is amazing when a stranger runs into a burning building to save
people he doesn't know. We admire that person but we wonder why they
would do that. However, we don't ask that question when a person does
it for someone they love. Instead we secretly ask ourselves if we were in the same situation, would we act just as
heroically? We hope so.
Brandon
Gamble gave his life out of love. He ran into the burning hallway on
a mission to save his family. Having a mission, an overriding
purpose, can make people do extraordinary things. When the Nazis occupied Poland, the Jews
were all herded into the ghetto. And that's when Irena Sendler found her mission. Sendler was a social worker in Warsaw. She
obtained a fake ID that said she was a nurse. This allowed her to go
into the ghetto and bring food, clothes and medicine. When she found
out that the Nazis were planning to exterminate the Jews, she joined
the Polish underground and recruited 10 friends to help her. This
group, which eventually grew to 24 women and one man, began to
smuggle out Jewish children in boxes, suitcases, burlap bags and even
coffins. Most of the children were taken to Roman Catholic
orphanages, convents and homes but Sendler recorded their names so
they could be reunited with their families. The scraps of paper with
the names were put in jars and buried in a friend's garden. When she
was captured by the Nazis and tortured, she did not give up her
friends in the underground nor the location of the jars. During one
session her interrogators broke her feet and legs. She escaped with
the help of a Gestapo officer who had been bribed by the resistance.
She went into hiding. After the war, she unearthed the jars and tried
to reunite the children with their families. Sadly, it turned out
that many of the families had been gassed by the Nazis. Then Sendler
would get the children adopted by Polish families or by Jewish
families in Israel. It is estimated that Irena Sendler saved the
lives of about 3000 children.
Scientific
evidence shows that a key part of both mental and physical health is having a purpose
in life. In a recent study adults who had a sense of purpose scored better in memory, cognitive function and executive function
tests than those who didn't, regardless of their education level.
Teens who had a purpose in life had a more positive self-image, less
delinquency, and were better at transitioning to adulthood. Another
study found that those with a greater sense of purpose had a 58%
reduced risk of death. And even when they adjusted for wealth,
physical activity and smoking, the risk of death was still 30% lower
than people who saw little or no purpose in life. In yet another study those
with a sense of purpose had “lower levels of inflammatory gene
expression and higher levels of antibody and antiviral genes.”
Having a purpose in life can boost your immune system.
Having
a purpose is also a key component of happiness. In fact, studies show
that pursuing happiness is a great way to be miserable. It is more
important to seek to be useful and to find meaning in your life and
work. As psychiatrist and Holocaust survivor Viktor Frankl observed,
“happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” It comes from
finding and pursuing a purpose in life. Your purpose will in turn
give meaning to your life, even the painful episodes. For instance,
let's say your purpose involves doing medical research into an
obscure disease. That can be a long and painstaking task. Finding
funding for a rare disease can be frustrating. Hitting dead ends in
your research can be discouraging. But as you make progress you will
be able to look back and see those obstacles are just part of
fulfilling your purpose. It's the same when people are pursuing a
career in sports or entertainment or law or ministry or anything
worthwhile. I tell the inmates at the jail that their incarceration
at least gives them time to find a goal, a purpose, a better life and to start working out the steps they can take to achieve that goal. I
pray with them that someday they will be able to look back on their
experience and say, “That period of my life sucked, but now I know
what I needed to learn or how I had to change as a person. Now I know
why I had to go through that difficult time.” Often God's plan for
you can only been seen in retrospect. Only by looking back can you
see how things came together to bring you to this point, though at
the time those events may not have looked as if they were part of any
plan.
You
know what enlisted people say is the hardest thing about adjusting to
civilian life after having been in a theatre of war? Not having a
mission. We might think it'd be great to sleep in and spend time with
the family and not have to worry about having your legs blown off by
an IED, and they do too. But they miss having a mission. “Today we
are marching to point X and looking for Y.” “Your job is to
monitor radio traffic or scan satellite images for evidence of enemy
activity.” “Our mission today is to set up a pump system so this
village can have clean reliable water.” Everyday, they were given a
mission, all laid out, precisely and step by step, with measurable
goals. And when they get back to the States, they miss having a clearly
defined mission.
When
we look at passages such as our reading from Isaiah 53 we tend to
concentrate on Jesus' sufferings. But just as prominent is his
mission: “But he was wounded for our transgressions, crushed for
our iniquities; upon him was the punishment that made us whole, and
by his bruises we are healed.” Jesus didn't suffer for no reason
any more than Irena Sendler did. He didn't die randomly any more than
Brandon Gamble did. He suffered and died to rescue us, those he
loves, from the things that enslave and destroy us.
Jesus
states his mission in our passage from Mark: “For the Son of Man
came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life a ransom for
many.” He did not come to be treated like an oriental potentate and
be fawned over and have his every whim fulfilled. He came to heal and
to teach and to die to save others. And if we are his followers we
must take part in his mission: to serve others self-sacrificially and
to tell them what he has done.
When
a soldier is sent on a mission, he is given whatever he needs to complete
it. If he needs it and asks for it, he gets it. Jesus said, “Ask
and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the
door will be opened for you.” (Matthew 7:7) He is not talking about
asking for a million dollars or your heart's desire but about what
you need. “Is there anyone among you who, if his son asks for
bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish will give him
a snake? If you then, although you are evil, know how to give good
gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give
good gifts to those who ask him!” (Matthew 7:9-11) God will give us
what we need to carry out our mission.
What
we need can be our talents, or skills, or training. Because your
mission is not necessarily the same as someone else's. Bach and
Handel were musicians. Their mission was to help people praise God
through music and song. The missions of El Greco and Michaelangelo
were to glorify God through painting and sculpture. Giotto and Sir
Christopher Wren carried out their mission through architecture. Giotto was a painter as well and Wren
was an anatomist, astronomer, geometer and
mathematician/physicist and so he made multiple contributions to the
common good. Many doctors and nurses and other medical personnel feel
called to use their skills and training to help people. And there are
less heralded and less glamorous but nevertheless vital activities,
like keeping the books and maintaining and repairing equipment and
cooking and getting information out and driving patients to appointments and so much more, that may be
certain folk's missions for God.
What
we need for our mission can be our personality or demeanor. Sometimes
the right person for the job is someone whose personality or attitude
invites others to join or puts people at ease or who communicates on
a level other than mere words. George Burns was a wannabe comic, who
would do anything to be on stage. If a vaudeville show needed a dog
act he would get one from the pound. He would say he was a singer, or
a dancer, just to get before an audience and tell jokes. He was
getting nowhere. Then he found Gracie Allen. He took her on to feed
him lines. But then he realized that she was funnier than he. So he
became the straight man and let her get all the laughs.
Which
leads me to this: what you need to do your mission can be another
person. Maybe they can do the part of the job you can't. For
instance, there are also people whose personality is not suited to
being the public face of an enterprise but they can get the work
done. I've worked with doctors who were great at their specialties
but had a terrible bedside manner. It even happens in show business.
You may never have heard of Gummo Marx. He was the Marx brother who
didn't like being on stage. He left the act very early and became a
theatrical agent who represented his brother Groucho and other
entertainers. He knew where his talents did and did not lie. Ask
anyone who's ever been in a show. Those "behind the scenes" people are
invaluable.
Sometimes
the biggest obstacle to our getting what we need is our reluctance to
ask someone to help. We have a vision of what we want to do but we
need someone practical to organize it. We need someone to finance it.
We need someone to supervise it. We need someone to recruit others or
to motivate them. When I was in rehab I learned that walking involves
11 muscle groups, more than I realized. Too often Christians think we
are to be the Lone Ranger, doing God's will all by ourselves. But
even the Lone Ranger had Tonto. We are the body of Christ. We have
each other to help us do what God calls us to do. We can use their
input as well as their talents in carrying out our mission.
What
is your mission? What did God put you here to do? Some clues are:
what things are you good at? What are the things you love? What does
the world around you need? Where those things overlap you will
usually find your purpose.
One
of the reasons that churches die is they lose their sense of mission.
They think their mission is just to exist. They forget that they are
here to do what Jesus commissioned us to do. And he never said, "Go
build beautiful buildings and shut yourself up in them, separated
from the world." He told us to go out into all the world. He told us
to make disciples of all nations. He told us to baptize them in the
name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. He told us
to teach them to observe all that he has commanded us. And what did
he command us to do? To love God with all we are and all we have, to
love our neighbors as ourselves and to love one another as he loves
us. How you do those things, how you use what he's given you and who
he's put in your life, is your mission. It's what God called you to
do. It's what he created you for. It's what the world needs. And it
is what you need to be fulfilled and happy and to give meaning to
your life in Christ.
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