The scriptures referred to are Hebrews 13:1-8, 15-16.
One feature all study Bibles have is a map section. This is not included merely so you can see the location of the places scripture mentions. Many of the maps show the routes people used to travel. And there is a lot of traveling going on in the Bible. Cain moves to the land of Nod. Noah floats to Ararat. Abraham and his family move from Ur to Canaan to Egypt and back. The armies of various nations and empires flow back and forth across the Middle East. First Israel and then Judah are taken into exile. The Jews return 70 years later. Jesus travels all over Galilee, Samaria and Judea spreading the gospel. And Paul gets a map or two for his missionary journeys and perhaps another showing the churches he wrote to. And I've got a Bible atlas showing the battle sites of Joshua and the judges, the victories of David and the perambulations of the prophets as well.
All of this took place before Hampton Inns, Hiltons, La Quintas and Best Westerns. To be sure, there were inns operating in Greco-Roman times, but as the Dictionary of New Testament Background puts it, “Available literary and archaeological sources attest to generally ill-kept facilities—minimal furnishings, bug-infested beds, poor food and drink, untrustworthy proprietors, shady clientele and generally loose morals.” Sounds like the kind of places that inspired my wife and I as young parents to make our rules for hotels to avoid: any place offering rooms for $30 or less and any franchise with a number in its name. Today you can't find anything decent for less than $100.
So if you were a traveler in ancient times, to avoid staying in these filthy inns, you wanted to stay with family and friends if possible. But a day's journey on foot was between 17 and 23 miles, greater if you had a cart or were traveling on horseback. And unless you were lucky enough to have loved ones living at convenient intervals all along your route, you had to resort to local hospitality. Luckily, hospitality, welcoming strangers into your home, was and is deemed a cardinal virtue in the Near East and Mediterranean world.
The Greek word for hospitality used in Hebrews 13:2 is philoxenia. It comes from the word philos or “friendly” and the word xenia, which is related to xenos and means “stranger.” So it means “treating a stranger as a friend.” In fact, the idea was to forge a bond of friendship between the previously unknown guest and the host. In Greece this was cemented by a gift given by the host to his departing guest. It reminded the guest of the hospitality he received and obligated him to return the hospitality should his former host drop by his home. Hospitality was also expected to transfer to the descendants of the original host and guest. So the tokens of the hospitality were often carried by the next generation as identification. Such relationships created alliances between families and if the families were wealthy or important, they affected the relationships between cities and states. In the Iliad, Paris' seduction of his host's wife, Helen, was such an egregious abuse of the rules of hospitality that it triggered the Trojan War.
God commands his people to be hospitable to strangers and foreigners as a contrast to their inhospitable treatment while in Egypt. (Exodus 12:48-49, 22:21) Hospitality was highly praised and lack of hospitality was seen as a grievous fault. In fact, the chief sin of Sodom and Gomorrah can be seen as their inhospitality to Lot's guests. Jesus even refers to Sodom when he says that denying hospitality to messengers of the gospel will be remembered at the last judgment. (Luke 10:10-12) So hosting strangers was not really seen as optional.
And the practice was beneficial to both parties. Not only did the traveler receive food, shelter and a bed, but the host and his community were able to neutralize the potential threat of strangers in their midst. They turned the strangers into friends.
Here's how it would work: the traveler would wait at the city gate or well. (Genesis 19: 1-2; Exodus 2:15) In small communities, the fact that he was not a local would be noticed immediately. Someone from the city or settlement would invite him to stay with them. His feet would be washed and his head might even be anointed with oil. (Luke 7:44-46) He and his animals would be fed. Bread and water were the minimum meal offered but usually an effort was made to prepare the best food possible: curds and milk, wine, and as a special treat, meat. That's what Abraham offers the 3 travelers in Genesis 18. Sarah makes cakes and he kills a calf and cooks it. When one of the visitors promises Abraham and Sarah a son, he realizes he is entertaining the Lord, or perhaps the Angel of the Lord, as well as two other angels, God's messengers. That is obviously what the writer of Hebrews is referring to in today's passage.
In New Testament times, the guest was greeted with a kiss, the equivalent of today's handshake. Besides food, entertainment might be offered and the guest invited to speak, and even to enter into a discussion of the Torah. Thus Jesus was not violating the modern rule to avoid discussing religion, but was honoring the customs of his time. In fact, the Talmud, the collection of commentaries on the Torah that is the basis of rabbinic Judaism, resembles a big, messy, disputatious cross-generational discussion of the Law of Moses.
While under the host's roof, the guest was protected. This explains Lot's horrifying offer of his daughters to the mob accosting his guests, the angels, at Sodom. (Genesis 19:4-9) It also explains the verse in Psalm 23 in which the Lord sets a table in the presence of one's enemies. God will protect those who come to him for shelter in accordance with the rules of hospitality. He is the perfect host.
The picture of God as host pervades the Bible. The world is his and we are his guests. In Genesis 1:29-30, he says, “See, I have given you every plant yielding seed that is upon the face of the earth, and every tree with seed in its fruit; you shall have them for food. And to every beast of the earth, and to every bird of the air, and to everything that creeps on the earth, everything that has the breath of life, I have given every green plant for food.” Like a good host, God provides a feast for his guests and their animals. In Exodus God hosts the children of Israel. As Psalm 105:39-41 says, “He spread a cloud for a covering, and fire to give light by night. They asked, and he brought quails, and gave them bread from heaven in abundance. He opened the rock, and water gushed forth; it flowed through the desert like a river.” When they get to the promised land, it is described as a veritable banquet, a land “flowing with milk and honey.” (Exodus 3:8)
Jesus himself acts as host on a number of occasions. He saves the wedding at Cana by providing more and better wine. (John 3:1-10) He feeds thousands on the green grass with fish and bread in abundance. (Luke 9:10-17) After his resurrection he breaks bread with the two going to Emmaus and cooks breakfast for the disciples. (Luke 24:28-31; John 21:9-10)
But the chief event in which Jesus is the host was his last supper. Presiding over a Passover meal that already commemorated God freeing his people from physical slavery, Jesus took two of the elements, bread and wine, and imbued them with a greater significance: “This is my body...This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins.” (Matthew 26:26-28) The host offers sustenance that goes beyond generosity. He offers himself to his guest. The host is the feast.
The picture scripture paints of the culmination of the kingdom of God is the ultimate wedding feast with the Lord as host. (Matthew 22:1-10) And the guests are put up in the many rooms or places to stay in his Father's house. (John 14:2) The equivalent word in Latin was used for the elaborate way stations set up for imperial officials traveling. Eternal life as a party is a jollier picture than the unbiblical image of sitting around on clouds you see in cartoons. And a God who throws the party is a different image than the one we see in popular culture.
If God is our host then several things follow. We are guests, given nourishment, protection, and gifts. The things of this world are given for our use while here but they are not our possessions. We may not destroy, abuse or hoard them, because they are for all the guests. Eventually we will have to return the things of this life to their proper owner in as good or better condition than we received them.
It also means we should be grateful to our host for his gifts and his protection. Not only is gratitude the appropriate response to God's grace but it is a healthier attitude than carping over not always getting what we want. Studies show that gratitude not only makes us more optimistic and happier, it also boosts our immune system. We were designed to be grateful.
It also means that we are to reciprocate. We are expected to open our lives and let God dwell in us. (John 14:23) We are also supposed to show hospitality to other people. One thing I am not hearing very much about in the current debates about immigration is our duty to be hospitable to foreigners. In Exodus 23:9, God says to the Israelites, “You shall not oppress a resident alien; you know the heart of the alien, for you were aliens in the land of Egypt.” We must never forget that we are dealing with people God created and God expects us to treat all people with the same justice and mercy we expect from him.
The opposite of philoxenia, the Greek word for hospitality, is xenophobia, fear or dislike of the stranger. Remember that one of the benefits of hospitality is turning strangers into friends. But that will never happen if we never get to know them, if we never step out of our comfort zone, if we never act in a friendly or generous manner. Let us not forget that our sins estrange us from God. (Ephesians 2:12) And yet that doesn't stop him from extending his hospitality, his friendship to us. (Ephesians 2:19; John 15:14-15) So, too, our attitude towards strangers should be to regard them as friends we haven't met yet. And when in doubt, we should do the friendliest thing. After all, someday we may be dining with them in God's kingdom. It'd be nice if they were familiar faces.
First preached on August 29, 2010. It has been revised and updated.