The scriptures referred to are Luke 6:27-38 and 1 Corinthians 15:35-38, 42-50.
Now that we have the internet it is both easier to think a famous person said something witty and insightful and yet harder to prove that they did. I wanted to start this sermon with a great quote by Mark Twain. And though it sounds like something he would say, the website quoteinvestigator.com could only trace it back as far as 1915. Which is a problem because Twain died in 1910. Anyway, the saying goes this way: “It ain't the parts of the Bible that I can't understand that bother me; it's the parts that I do understand.”
This line can be interpreted two ways. Skeptics, like Twain, could be saying that the parts of the Bible that trouble them are the parts they understand but don't believe or that they disagree with or which they find unpleasant. But it could equally mean that the parts that bother them are the parts they understand quite well but don't wish to obey. In other words, it could be the commandments that clearly say not to commit adultery or not to lie or not to covet your neighbor's stuff. It could even be the commandment to love your neighbor. But I will bet that the clear commandment Jesus gives us in today's gospel is the one that bothers most people: love your enemies.
When people say all religions are alike they don't mean that they all have the same conception of God, at least not if they have actually studied most religions. They usually mean that they all give us the same moral instructions. And, yes, there is a huge overlap. The virtues religions enjoin are largely the same: be honest, be brave, be wise, be kind. I've never run across a major religion that teaches its followers to betray each other. Even cults don't teach their followers that, whatever other bad things they teach. And you can find a version of the Golden Rule in just about every major religion and philosophy. Treating others the way you would like to be treated (or at least not treating them in a way you wouldn't like to be treated) seems to be a basic universal moral insight. But Jesus' commandment to love even our enemies and do good to them appears to be unique to Christianity.
Unfortunately, it's the law of reciprocity that is universal. That is, if you treat a person well it is likely that they will in turn treat you well. But if you treat them badly, they will do the same to you. Contrary to the Golden Rule, we don't so much treat people the way we wish to be treated but the way we are in fact treated. Be nice to someone and they will return the favor. Be mean to them and they will retaliate. The problem is that this begins a tit-for-tat situation. If you treat me badly and I do the same back at you, you are likely to continue to treat me badly and I you. This can go on for a long time. In the case of some racial or ethnic groups or some countries, the mutual mistreatment can last for generations. It can lead to discrimination, unjust laws, riots and even wars.
There are only two ways to end such a circle of violence. One is to totally eliminate all of your enemies. That seems to be the way preferred by most groups and nations. Oh, sure you can instead conquer and subjugate your enemies. But that turns them into an oppressed group. And oppressed groups can and do eventually rise up in revolt against their oppressors. Even if they don't succeed in overthrowing their oppressors, this can lead to continual unrest. That's why the Nazis just decided to eradicate all their enemies. And we aren't just talking about Jews. They also executed political opponents, Slavic peoples, communists, gays, the mentally or physically disabled, Jehovah's Witnesses, the Roma (once called Gypsies), union members and Christian clergy who spoke out against what they were doing. Their death camps were basically death factories. They killed 12 million non-combatant people. And they still didn't manage to wipe out all their enemies. Authoritarian leaders never seem to learn that lesson.
The other way to deal with your enemies is to reconcile with them. People rarely do this because (A) it is unpleasant and (B) it is harder.
It is unpleasant because it means recognizing that your enemies are also human beings like you with a right to exist. It is also unpleasant because it means you are going to have to admit to the awful things you have done to harm your enemies. Actually both sides generally have to admit to this so it is not pleasant for either side. This repugnance to admit you were ever in the wrong is a large reason why people reject reconciliation. I've seen this in families where brothers or sisters or cousins or even parents and children would rather have nothing to do with each other for decades or even for the rest of their lives than apologize and reconcile. The grandfather of a friend of mine was estranged from all of his siblings. When my friend started researching his genealogy he found that he had dozens of cousins he never knew about. Two of them worked in the same company as his wife! He had grown up without the pleasant memories of having a large extended family because of his grandfather's unforgiving behavior.
That's another thing that makes reconciliation unpleasant: forgiving others for the wrongs they've done. We'd much rather hold grudges. We don't want to give up feeling justified in our behavior towards others. Frankly, we want them to suffer. Scientists have found that hatred can feel good. A lot of the same parts of the brain that are activated when we love are also active when we hate.
Reconciliation also means being forgiven. And while that might sound nice, it can be humiliating. First you have to admit to doing something bad and then you have to let the other person take the moral high ground and forgive you. Some people would rather die than let that happen.
The second reason people don't like to try reconciliation is that it is hard. And not just in the emotional ways we just talked about. Changing attitudes and behaviors take time. Changing laws that discriminate against others takes effort and will. Restoring what was taken from the other group can be expensive. Every time in this country the idea of reparations comes up, whether to the Native Americans whom the US government forcibly moved off their land, or to African Americans whose ancestors were slaves for the better part of 300 years and second class citizens for 100 more or to Japanese Americans who were forced to sell their houses and businesses and live in camps during the Second World War, it is buried in a blizzard of objections, mostly economic.
We call ourselves a Christian nation, yet we do not obey the clear commands of Christ. Today's whole gospel passage would be in red letters in many editions of the Bible. It is Jesus who is telling us to turn the other cheek, to lend to anyone who asks without expecting anything in return, to love those who do not love you. Don't we believe him? Or do we treat Jesus merely as a mascot, a symbol of our group, of our team, whose antics we like but whose behavior means nothing compared to whose side wins?
But there are consequences to not taking Jesus seriously. We think of reciprocity when it comes to others but we forget that God is also an interested party. So Jesus says, “Do not judge and you will not be judged...” In the parallel passage in Matthew Jesus adds, “For by the standard you judge you will be judged...” (Matthew 7:2) If you are harsh in your judgment, you will be judged just as harshly. If you judge others on the results of what they did rather than on their intentions, you will be judged that way as well. And though doing that is not fair on our part, having that same standard applied to us would be fair.
Jesus also says, “do not condemn and you will not be condemned...” We are quick to condemn others whose behavior or words we don't like. We like to pass verdicts on people. But we rarely know the whole story. Richard Jewel was a security guard at the 1996 Summer Olympics in Atlanta. He saw a suspicious backpack that had three pipe bombs in it on the grounds of the Centennial Olympic Park. He alerted the police and helped evacuate the area, saving many people from injury and death. But based on psychological profiling, the FBI considered him a suspect. The media ran with the idea that the hero was really a villain who did this to make himself look good. All of the scrutiny made his life and those of his family and friends miserable. It took 88 days before the federal authorities cleared his name. Later domestic terrorist Eric Robert Rudolph pleaded guilty to this and other bombings. But for nearly 3 months the media made Richard Jewel look like the bad guy.
We're all guilty of judging and condemning others. And if God treats us as we treat others, then we are in trouble. But Jesus also says, “Forgive and you will be forgiven.” This is something we often forget even though it's in the Lord's Prayer: “forgive us our sins for we also forgive everyone who sins against us.” (Luke 11:4; cf Matthew 6:12) God is forgiving. In 1st John we are told “But if we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous, forgiving us our sins and cleansing us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9) But God is interested not just in wiping the slate clean but in transforming us into Christlike people. Which means we are to become forgiving. When Peter asks Jesus how many times should he forgive his brother when he asks to be forgiven and suggests 7 times, Jesus says, “Not seven times, I tell you, but seventy times seven.” (Matthew 18:22)
If we are to be that forgiving of one another, how much more forgiving is God! And Jesus is not just making empty promises of how forgiving God is. Jesus is God's son, the very image of God, the expression of who God is. (Hebrews 1:2-3: John 1:1) He was betrayed, abandoned, beaten, whipped, nailed to a cross and left to die. But he never fought back and from the cross he said of those who were in the process of killing him, “Father, forgive them, for they don't know what they are doing.” (Luke 23:34) If you want to know what God is like, look to Jesus.
And he expects us, his followers, to do the same. Jesus says we are to be merciful just as God the Father is merciful. And we see God's mercy most clearly in Jesus.
The purpose of God's plan is for us to become like Jesus. But how can we? Through the power of his Holy Spirit. The way God wants to eliminate evil is not to eliminate us but change us. We were created in the image of God but we have marred that image through our sins. It needs to be cleaned up and restored. As we said, we see that image of God in Jesus Christ. When we turn from evil, like violence, rage, revenge, and mistreating others, and turn to him, he gives us not only his life, eternal life, but he also gives us his Spirit. When we surrender our life to God in Christ, we receive the same Spirit who empowered Jesus in his earthly life. As Jesus saved us from the penalty of sin on the cross, the Spirit saves us from the power of sin in our life. It is not instantaneous. As we see in Jesus' parables it is a process, like seeds becoming plants and growing. When Jesus returns, when it is time for the harvest, we will be saved from the very presence of sin. The paradise God created and which we have turned into hell on earth will be restored in much the same way Jesus was raised from the dead. There will be a new heaven and a new earth, populated by people who are new creations in Christ.
Paradise cannot exist if it is filled with hate and people who see each other as enemies. We must come to see each other instead as people created in God's image, who have inherent worth. We must see each other as people whom God loved so much that he sent his son to die for and redeem us.
We often reduce the good news of the gospel to “God loves you, so love him back.” But it is also true that God loves others and so we must love them also. One way to do that is to treat others as we would treat Jesus. If you saw him hungry or thirsty or threadbare, you would give him what he needs. If you see him in those who are sick or who are in prison or who are new to your country, you will care for and visit and welcome them as you would for him. Jesus said how we treat others, however destitute, diseased, disabled, disadvantaged, or despised, is how we treat him. (Matthew 25:40)
It can be hard and painful to look for Jesus in someone, especially when that image of God is so deeply buried in the muck of sin that we simply have to trust that it is there. Imagine how hard and painful it was for Jesus! People saw him as the enemy and killed him. But he took up his cross for us. And as his followers we too must take up our crosses and follow him. (Luke 9:23) If we don't, we cannot be his disciples. (Luke 14:27) But Jesus thought the cross was worth the joy of seeing us redeemed. (Hebrews 12:2) If we do as he did, we shall reign with him when he restores the heavens and the earth and makes all things, including us, new. (Revelation 21:1-5)