Even
when people like the same thing, they often like it for different
reasons. I like Sherlock, the BBC's contemporary version of the Great Detective, for many reasons. I like the writing, the clever way they
update these Victorian characters, the little details that are nods
to the originals, the plots, the humor, and the superb acting. Some
people just like it because they think lead actor Benedict Cumberbatch is sexy. You find the same thing in others fandoms, in
sports, politics or most hobbies and enthusiasms: even within a group devoted to the same idea or activity, people are drawn to different
aspects of it. And the same goes for religion. Some people like it
for the inspiration, some for the moral order, some for the
fellowship, some for the theology, some for the artistic elements,
some for the acts of devotion and some for its precepts. Which
is, oddly enough, why there are so many divisions within religions, such as Christianity, despite the fact that we agree on so much. We each feel our
approach, our priorities, our emphases are the correct or most
important ones. And just as the worst arguments happen within
families, we seem to get most upset by those with whom we share the
most.
There
is a way to resolve this problem, at least within Christianity. Let's look at
Jesus and at the Bible. What are the most important things
according to our primary sources?
The
Torah, the 5 books of Moses, contain 613 commandments by the rabbis'
reckoning. And not being stupid, they realized that some must be more
important than others. For instance, in a life and death situation,
where strict adherence to every little rule might delay or prevent a
good Jew from saving someone's life, which commandment takes
precedence? When asked this, Jesus gave not one but two commandments:
“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul
and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment.
And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself. All the
law and the prophets depend on these two commandments.” (Mt
22:37-40) In Mark's version, Jesus says, “There is no other
commandment greater than these.” (Mk 12:31) Notice that Jesus is
not saying, “These are somewhat important commandments” or “These
are interesting commandments.” He says they are the greatest
commandments--there are none greater and all the other ethical
demands are derived from these two. Or as N.T. Wright puts it,
“Everything else is footnotes.”
If you
asked a group of people passing by on the street what they thought
Christians held to be the most important commandments, what do you
think they would say? No gay marriage? No abortions? No teaching
evolution? If so, whose fault is it that we have let the emphasis on
those things obscure the gospel, the good news of the love of God in
Christ? Doesn't Jesus tell us that the commandments to love God and
to love others trump every other commandment? Why don't more
Christians acknowledge this?
Because
it frightens them. The commandments to love are open-ended and
non-specific. How do we know what actions are loving? People do lots of things
in the name of love. Whereas the other commandments are more measurable. Make
an image and worship it? That's a violation. Commit adultery? That's
a violation. Work on the Sabbath? That's a violation. Except that
even in this example, it's not always easy to determine if a commandment is
being broken. Jesus' opponents felt that his healing on the Sabbath
broke that commandment. Jesus didn't. To him, it wasn't work; it was
an act of love.
And we
do know love when we see it. You see lovers on the street walking
with arms around each other; you see a mother restraining her child
from crossing against the light; you see a man get out of his car,
pull a wheelchair out of the back, set it up, lock the brakes and
then help his aged parent into it. Those are all acts and signs of love.
There
are less clear ones. In public, a mother yells “No!” loudly at her child. Is
that abuse? Or is she trying to stop the child from putting the nasty
thing it found on the floor in its mouth? You see a child crying in front
of a stern-faced father. Is the father being cruel? Or has he just
made it clear to the child for the twentieth time that he is not
getting the expensive toy he wants today? The woman is putting back
on the shelf the food item her aged father just put in his motorized
cart. Is she being mean? Unnecessarily frugal? Or is she trying to
observe the doctor's orders on what the older man cannot eat if he
doesn't want to make his condition worse?
People
do a lot of things for love, including inappropriate or even morally
wrong things. That's why the commandment to love scares us. Why, it
can be an excuse to do just about anything! But not really. You
cannot harm someone and call it love. Indeed in the oath that doctors
and nurses take they promise to “first, do no harm.” They do not
take an oath to love their patients but if we as Christians are to
follow Jesus and obey his commandments, it is understood that part of
love is doing no harm to others nor allowing any harm to come to
them, in so far as we can. Anything that harms or fails to reasonably
protect others from harm cannot be considered love.
This
is what John is getting at in our passage today. (1 Jn 3:16-24) “How
does God's love abide in anyone who has the world's goods and sees a
brother or sister in need and yet refuses help?” Letting the person
who needs food or clothes or shelter or healing continue to suffer is
not a loving thing to do. Not allowing people to feed the homeless, which is now the law in 33 American cities, is
not loving. It makes no sense to say we love God and then do terrible
things to those created by him in his image. Or allow terrible things
to be done to them. Especially because, as John writes, “We know
love by this, that [Jesus Christ] laid down his life for us...” The
reason we love Jesus, and the way we know what love truly is, comes
from what he did for us. He laid down his life; he set aside all
claims to it; he gave it all up. And he did so for us. It only makes
sense, then, that “we ought to lay down our lives for each other.”
We need to go outside our comfort zones to help those who need it.
“Little
children, let us love, not in word or speech, but in truth and in
action.” If there is one verse that should be up there with John
3:16, or the passages on the great commandments, as one of the verses
we should all memorize, it is this one. We Christians talk a good
game but we often sound like fans who enthusiastically discuss sports
but don't actually play them. It is acceptable today to think of
sports as merely entertainment, watching and paying athletes
handsomely to do what we cannot. So we are used to seeing sports fans
who are grossly out of shape. But Christianity is not here to
entertain us. It is an activity in which participation is mandatory.
John
says, “All who obey his commandments abide in him and he abides in
them.” How does this work? How does obeying Jesus' commandments
lead to him living in us? Because of a fact that John lets drop in
the next chapter: “God is love.” Not “God is loving” but “God
is love.” God is the ongoing act of love between the persons of the
Trinity. And if God is love, then our participating in that divine
love makes it part of us. God created us out of the overflowing of
that love and having that love in us means that acting in love should
naturally flow out of that. As it says in 1st John 4:8,
“Whoever does not love does not know God for God is love.” And if
we do not know God how can we call ourselves Christians, followers of
the God of Love Incarnate? As Sister Claire Joy of the Community of
the Holy Spirit said, “...love God above all and then prove it...by
loving your neighbor as yourself.”
Remember
how we said that all the other commandments are footnotes to the two
greatest? Those commandments are all ways one can show love. In one chapter of
Leviticus alone (19) we are told:
“Do not go over your vineyard a
second time or pick up the grapes that have fallen. Leave them for
the poor and the immigrant. I am the Lord your God.
“Do
not steal. Do not lie. Do not deceive one another....
“Do
not defraud your neighbor or rob him. Do not hold back the wages of a
hired man overnight.
“Do
not curse the deaf or put a stumbling block in front of the blind but
fear your God. I am the Lord.
“Do
not pervert justice; do not show partiality to the poor or favoritism
to the great but judge your neighbor fairly.
“Do
not go about spreading slander among your people.
“Do
not do anything that that endangers your neighbor's life. I am the
Lord.
“Do
not hate your neighbor in your heart. Rebuke your neighbor frankly so
you will not share his guilt.
“Do
not seek revenge or bear a grudge against one of your people, but
love your neighbor as yourself. I am the Lord.” And, yes, that
where Jesus got that commandment.
The
chapter goes on to command respect for the elderly and to treat
resident aliens as countrymen. There are others which do not apply to
us because we do not live in ancient Bronze Age theocratic Israel.
But these are all concrete ways of loving our neighbor. There are
others.
We can
encourage and support and comfort and listen to and empathize with
others, especially when they are in distress.
We can
teach and guide and share with others helpful knowledge and our
experience dealing with challenges.
We can
learn from and understand and accept and strengthen and celebrate
others' triumphs and joys.
We can
hug and laugh with and reconcile with and forgive and ask
forgiveness from others.
We can
feed the hungry, provide potable water to the thirsty, house the
homeless, visit the sick and those in prison, and welcome the
immigrant, as Jesus told us to do in Matthew 25.
We can
protect the vulnerable and give voice to the voiceless and work for
the end of violence.
We can
work for justice for all and peace for all.
There
are many more ways to show love. They are limited only by our
imagination and creativity.
In a
way it is not surprising that the hardest commandments are the ones
most people forget or ignore. Not many people bring up the command to
love our enemies either. It's much easier to concentrate on simpler commandments that have to do with refraining from eating or drinking
certain things, dressing a certain way, using or not using certain
words, etc. These things are superficial but manageable. But commit
yourself to love whomever you encounter--which is Jesus' definition
of “neighbor”--and you open yourself up to all kinds of
unpredictability. Your neighbor could not only be anyone but their
needs could be things that even a Winn Dixie gift card and a boatload
of platitudes could not fulfill. Love demands more of us.
Love
always costs. Like everything else that's worthwhile, it will take
time, it will take energy, it will take attention to detail and it
will take money. That's the price of commitment. And love takes
commitment. It takes commitment to the person you are trying to love,
of course. But it also takes commitment to the whole idea of loving
others. You can't just switch it off when you want to. Love means you
can't just dismiss people. You can't deem some people unworthy of
love. God loves us and if we are honest, we will admit that we can be
pretty unlovable at times. God loves us in spite of that. If we are
to reflect him, we need to do the same for others. We need to commit
to it and make it our top priority in all that we think, in all that
we say, in all that we do.
There
are lots of laws in the Bible. Jesus says love is at the heart of
them. The essential thing is to love God and to love those created in
his image, which is everyone you meet. In 1st Corinthians
13, Paul said that you can be smart and do noble and heroic things
but if you don't have love, you are nothing. If we try to impose
parts of scripture on others without love, we are negating the
gospel. The good news is not “You're going to hell.” It is that
in Jesus we see what God is like and what we see is that God is love.
If you want to know what love is, you need to get to know and follow
Jesus. Knowing and being with and in Jesus is heaven. It's not a
cloud; it's not Disney World writ large; it's not getting every
little thing your heart desires. It's being included in the eternal
circle of love that is our God. And it is including everyone we can,
inviting them all and removing all the obstacles that are preventing
them from entering in. Love is the mark of the Christian; it is how
Jesus said the world would recognize us as his disciples. Love is the
whole law.
Everything
else is footnotes.